One of the earliest actions we learn is to be selfish. We are naturally born to think about ourselves first. The idea and action of putting others ahead of ourselves is a learned trait and we all need help in learning it. When we begin to think of others first, our relationships with those people will become stronger than ever. Selflessness brings out the best in others. It builds relationships. What does it mean to be selfless? It means you think a little less of yourself and a little more of others. Philippians 2:4 Not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.) The opposite of selflessness is selfishness. It’s the number one cause of conflict and arguments. The Bible says, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don’t get it” Self-centeredness destroys relationships. The greatest lesson you and I learn in life is to be unselfish. It is not something that will happen overnight, it’s an asset that we will have to work on for the rest of our life. But, if you want to see those cranky, unlikable people change, treat them with kindness instead of giving them what they deserve. Learning to care about others first will change your relationships. Pastor Don [image: image.png]